My Bday... Thanks to My colleagues

To all my colleagues... thanks for organizing such a great birthday surprise for me... I'm very happy and glad that you all celebrate my birthday... This year birthday was the best birthday that I've ever had.... Thanks again....

Here I would like to take this opportunity to thanks you guys:

Jerry : Thanks for organizing this whole thing... The surprise, the presents and the flowers... I knew that you are the one who plan for everything and bought those presents and gifts....

Ivan : Thanks for wrapping the gifts. Give you some credits for the wrapping... It’s very nice. Thanks for bullying me... and makes my face full of cream... I will remember it....

Vivian : Thanks for your hand made card.... It’s cute... and also your betrayal... I saw the video clip... I knew you also helping them to bully me....

Tee : Thanks for your betrayal... I trust you but you also one of them... Luckily I react quickly. Or else I will be worst....

Pua & Victor : Thanks for coming and the presents....

Lawrence & Eric : Thanks for coming.... Really glad that you both can make it. But can't believe you both applying those creams on my cheeks…

Just back from Pyramid with Ivan, Jerry and Tee... Dropped by at TN to meet them, back to my office... recalled back those sweet memories. I really miss my job a lot. Miss my colleagues and my job. I realize that I still can't forgive Pua for not protecting me and force me to resign. I very hate him.

On the way to TN, Mic scolded me. Feel very upset for not understanding me. I've tried my best to bake the cookies all by myself, without asking him to help. I know Ms Tan did wrong. But why he scold me. Why he want to put the blame on me. I'm also the victim. Ms Tan is very terrible. She took 7 tongs of Cornflakes and 7 tongs of Cashewnut Cookies. All the ingredients paid by me and the worst is she want to charge me for the Pineapple tart cookies. Why I've such a friend? What should I do now??? Who can teach me????

On the way to Pyramid, received a sms from him

Mic : I know that you feel very unhappy with me that always want to control you. Sometimes is just that I just too care about you. You just put your friend above yourself. I just don't want you to suffer because of your friend.

My replied was ;

Me : I also feel very 心痛 about the cookies. But I really dunno wat to do. I really feel very bad now I din workn and can't bare your burden.

Me : I just want to tell you ... I'm sorry...

Ate Sakae Sushi , bought a shirt for CNY and drank a cup of Black Forest Mocha from Coffee Bean... and all of my stress was release. I really happy to go out with them... At least they can cheer me up...

Mum's Bday

My mum’s bday today. Supposed to go to 六姑 house to bake cookies, but due to my hand pain and my lack of time, I’ve decided to cancel it. After having my beloved Grilled Chicken set lunch from Burger King, helping my brother to finished the puzzle that we bought for my mum with the help of Sok Him, my sis in law.

Finally P’ng came and finished up the puzzle and prepares myself for dinner with my parents and Uncle Lim and family. We went to an Italian’s restaurant at Bukit Raja. The dinner was great. I brought a red wine and a cake. Mic told me that they will have surcharge for the wine but they didn’t charge us… They were too kind…The food was great too. I think I will go there again if I have a chance. JL, reminds me to bring you there ok?

Mum's bday present

I think he was cursing me like hell for not helping him...

Mum's bday cake

My family

Uncle Lim's family and My Family...

Farewell to my TN colleagues....

Finally, the day has come... and I've really need to leave TN. I thought that I will feel happy but deeply in my heart I really feel upset. When I ran through the report for the whole year on 3 pm, I was quite happy with the result. My outstanding D/O was less than 15 D/Os but on Dec 2009, its increase till 98 D/Os. After saying goodbyes to everyone of them, I went dinner with M.Leng, S.Ting and Linda. Went to nearby Pizza Hut, ordered our food and chatted nicely... We talked about those days at TN, how I was get bullied by my seniors and how I improve my monthly D/O outstanding. After 7.30pm I went out with Jerry and gang. Before I'm officially left TN, Ivan went to Ita's pc and played the song 朋友 from Emil Chou for me. I sat in front of the pc and I cried for a while. I really miss them a lot.....

We went to Sunway for buffet steamboat... and the restaurant was sucks... Can't remember the Restaurant's name coz I knew that I will never go there anymore. Again Vivian was unhappy again. Maybe she was angry with us. Jerry and Ivan refuse to celebrate her birthday on the coming Monday. They didn't even buy a cake. I feel quite bad about it because on my birthday they planned and gave me lots of surprises, presents and flowers. I have persuaded them but no one of them refuses to listen to me...

After dinner, Tee and Doren decided to come to my house for drink. While on the way back, everyone was very quiet. And I don’t know whose idea it was to on the music 友谊万岁. All those good memories flash back on my mind. I knew that the next morning when I wake up, everything will back to zero. These 17 months was a dream to me… A very sweet dream…. Guys… 我会永远把你放在我心里

Victor and Doren

Is not easy to take photos with Vivian when they are around

Does Ivan looks like a joker?

After my crying session....

Jerry and Tee

Dinner at Pizza Hut

Guess who is this?? Who else ... Pua lar

My 2 subordinate...

Shu Yi at our office...

Our POD and lotsheet team

Goodbye.... TN

朋友 - 周华健

这些年 一个人

风也过 雨也走

有过泪 有过错

还记得坚持甚麽

真爱过 才会懂

会寂寞 会回首

终有梦 终有你 在心中

朋友 一生一起走

那些日子 不再有

一句话 一辈子

一杯酒

朋友 不曾孤单过

一声朋友 你会懂

还有伤 还有痛

还要走 还有我

还要走 还有我

Email To TN colleagues

----- Original Message -----

From: Wei Fen

To: Zah-billingSA ; zaidi_melaka ; Yew TNPrai ; ytsaw@tiongnam.com.my ; Yatie Harun ; Woon-JB ; wennie.ong@tiongnam.com.my ; Vivian ; Vincent TNSATransit ; Victor Teh (CLS) ; Timothy Wee ; tc koh ; Skw ; siti s'ban ; Sinee ; shuyi ; sharida ; Satransit4 ; Pua ; Pei ying ; Nancy Tan ; Ms.Ong Ipoh Billing ; mira ; low SUAN TEE ; Low - Operation ; lkchoo ; Leza ; LeeCheeWah ; Leong-Ipoh ; KANG WEI ; Jerry ; Jay Loke ; Izan TNL ; Ivan ; iena - tnl Prai ; Heather Ong ; hazita@tiongnam.com.my ; Harisun-Billing ; Goh ; Francis ; Fara ; Din ; elaine khoo ; Debby Pang ; Davy ; CM Sim ; chris.choo ; bryan ; azieni@tiongnam.com.my ; Azie ; Andrew ; Amy ; Amini

Sent: Friday, January 22, 2010 10:33 AM

Dear Colleagues and Friends,

It is time for me to say goodbye. I will be leaving Tiong Nam by today.

I would like to take this opportunity to express my gratitude and thanks to all of you for your support that given to me in the past. I really did enjoy the days at TN and learn a lot from TN in the past 17 months.

From today onwards, Ms Mandy and Ms Nor Hapizah will be handle my work. If any inquiry, please contact 019 7715925 .

If you like to keep in touch with me, please email me at weifen83@hotmail.com.

Lastly, I wish everyone of you all the best and good luck.....

Happy Chinese New Year!!!!

Regards
Weifen

Email : weifen83@hotmail.com

I've already start packing my things at the office... Feel quite miserable. Suddenly I realize that I'm no longer belongs to TN. During my days in TN, I've learn a lot and have no regrets for working here.

Still remember those days when I am still new with everything and always get bullied by my colleagues. I'm so lucky to have Lee to protect me... He protected me a lots... I'm very grateful to Mr Lee because he was the one who gave me the chance to work in TN and taught me lots of things. Without him, I won't be able to know my bunch of colleagues.

Receive a call from Ivan yesterday night around 9.30pm, asking me out for drink with Tee and Victor. I told him I can make it if only they wait for me to take a quick bath but he said they almost reach and instructed me to get change and wait for them outside right away. After he hung up, I took a very quick bath and dress up... To take a bath and dress up took me around 5 minutes only. Told Mic to go there by himself. Rushed down and waited outside for 20 minutes.... I'm just wandering why am I so naive and stupid to trust him at that moment. Every 10 minutes I gave him a call, and he told me that he reached and saw me edy. Haih~~~

Anyway, we went to a cafe which I've forgotten the name.... Order 2 bucket of Carlsberg... Relaxing and nicely gossipping about others... Out of sudden, I really don't feel like leaving them. I know I will miss them a lot and time can't go back...

Yesterday night received mother in law call... Below is the conversation that we both chat...

WF : 喂。。 妈？

MIL : 你今天有做工吗？

WF : 有啊。。

MIL : 手怎样？ 有痛吗？

WF : 一点而已。做完这几天就不用在做了。。

MIL : 要做。。。 开刀过后在做工。。。

WF : 要做。 我是说再这公司我做最后几天。。。

This was just the first part of the conversation. Frankly, I was so pissed off... She really thought that I don' want to work anymore. Does she really thinks that I want this to happen to me? Does she really thinks that I want o resign??? I force to resign... I don't want this thing to happen to me... Why she can't understand me??? Since the day I left my colleage, I start working. I never stop working till now... till my hand cause me problems... till my superior trying to force to resign... till I can't tolerate Francis.... Why can't she just understand my situation??? I should be happy and glad that she called... But I rather she didn't call....

Another 4 more days to go and Tiong Nam will be nothing to do with me.... I feel upset bcoz I will leave all my good colleagues but on the other hand I feel release... I really don't like going back there facing with some of my colleagues, superior and Francis, coz I knew that they are just wearing a mask. Hypocrite and selfish...

Well, as for my job. My superior wants me to handover to a new gal whom I don't really like. Furthermore, she don't understand English and she is a new. I really don't understand why he refuse to pass my work to Pija. At least she has more working experience than her. Haih... this world is so unfair....

Today JL has some misunderstanding with me. Yesterday I msn with her, telling her to call me today... Actually I just want to chat with her and also inform her about meeting with Alice tonight. Then in the afternoon, I called her ( Due to one of my colleagues forcing me to ask her about the beer thing) and she told me that she was very busy and will call me later... Waiting her call ... while busy with my work... and almost forgotten about her call... almost at 6, she called, and she told me what's up. So I asked her "Now only you free ar?" and she replied "Yea lar..." Automatically I replied "Aiyoh" and she said "Why you so demanding?" Maybe she thought that my "Aiyo" meaning that why she called so late, but actually I just pity her. Since after her lady boss was admitted, she was damn busy. In and out from the hospital and need to deal with her job.... Anyway, I m quite upset for this misunderstanding....

Chinese New Year is coming soon and as usual I will be busy baking my New Year cookies. Don't understand why all these years I'm still enjoy baking cookies... Went to Ms Tan 's house to discuss with her what's ingredients that we need and which cookies are we going to bake this year... Sitting there discussing and out of sudden both of us have an idea of selling the cookies with the help of My uncle. He was the one who helps me to sell the cookies last 2 years.

After discussing, Mic fetched me to took the oven from my mum's house and went to bought the ingredients... Tomorrow will be a busy day for me. We start our baking tomorrow onwards... Hopefully this year I can earn more profit.

Today Mr Low Suan Tee told me something that was really meaningful. He said that " Before leaving the house, We will look ourselves in the mirror. Make sure that we are looking good and also wearing a mask. We will not reveal our true selves to others. " I'm totally agree with what he said... We will never know who will really treat us good or bad. Don't know when he/she will betray you or even worst than that. ST Low really taught me a lot of things. He always advice me not to really trust on people and try to beware with those whom wearing a mask.

From my incident, I really know who is the one whom really treat me good and bad. No matter how well I treated them, they will not appreciate. In front of me, they will pretend to be nice but on the other hand they will try to use harsh words to ask me leave. I'm really disappointed.